“Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called children of God” (Matthew 5:9)
There is a term that most clearly marks the world today. That term is conflict. It may describe big conflicts like the war between countries, or smaller ones like next-door neighbors disagreeing about a fence line. Look at the world around us: collapsing cultures, world chaos, and egotistical rulers. There is conflict in the workplace and in the home.
Conflict in the Bible covers everything from large-scale wars to family friction. Biblical teachings emphasize seeking peace, loving enemies, forgiveness, and overcoming evil with good. Key themes involve the ongoing struggle between righteousness and sin, and the call for believers to be peacemakers. We must also follow practical steps for resolving disagreements, such as the process found in Matthew 18.
The Bible teaches that conflict often stems from selfish desires, but it provides clear guidance for resolution. It emphasizes speaking truth in love, being quick to listen, and prioritizing reconciliation over winning arguments. Key principles include being slow to anger (James 1:19), forgiving freely (Ephesians 4:32), and seeking to live at peace with everyone (Romans 12:18).
There are spiritual conflicts, group conflicts, and conflicts within the family. They are internal and external. Conflicts have existed for as long as people have assembled together. The church is no exception; all too often, the wisdom of the world prevails. We live in a culture where pleasure is found in fulfilling one’s own desires. Pride and self-interest are often the root cause. We lust, and yet we do not have.
Friendship with the world is enmity with God. We put our needs above the needs of the community. Are lust and desire your gods? James exhorts us to submit to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. Draw near to God, and He will draw near to you (James 4:7–8).
- Relinquish control to God
- Reject sinful attitudes
- Refrain from frivolous arguments
- Refuse to slander others
- Be quick to listen, slow to speak
- Overcome evil with good
- Pursue peace
- Humble yourself
Jesus handled conflict with grace, focusing on others’ needs—even those of His enemies (John 3:16). How about you?
by John Grant
used by permission
John Grant is a former Florida State Senator and is a practicing attorney
FURTHER READING<
Blessed Peacemakers by Bill Bright
Blessed are the Peacemakers by Charles Spurgeon
Be a Peace Maker by Helen Lescheid