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A Bitter Poison

Published on October 15, 2023


Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. Be kind to one another, tender hearted, forgiving each other, just as God in Christ also has forgiven you. Ephesians 4:31-32


Picture a man hunched over a chemistry set, adding a pinch of this and a dash of that to the unpleasant green fluid before him. He is thinking of someone who harmed him, replaying all the perceived slights and hurts, and is concocting a poison to repay the offender. 

His work finished, he breathes a sigh of relief and takes the beaker in his hands, marveling at what’s been created. “This will show him,” the man says, and then drinks the bitter brew himself. 

That’s a surprising twist, to be sure. Yet there is a good chance you’ve essentially done this very thing at one time or another. 

Bitterness is a poison that we prepare for someone else but then drink ourselves. It is something we often carefully nurture and grow over the years. If someone hurts us—whether intentionally or unintentionally—and we begin to fantasize of a thousand and one ways to get payback, all we are doing is destroying our own heart and mind. Thankfully, our faith presents a better way to live. Rather than nurture hate, we can “turn from evil and do good; seek peace and pursue itPsalm 34:14.

By Dr. Charles Stanley
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Further Reading

• Bitter Hearts – by Doug Lim

You Never Let Go . .  by Kristi Huseby

Bitterness in the Garden of Our Hearts – by Francis Frangipane